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A Day In The Life Continues …
If you saw my previous post, “Exclusive BTS from a Girlboss” then you saw what it’s like being me. No two days are the same. I have posted other pictures on my Instagram feed and Twitter feed – showing you some other behind the scenes stuff.
I was all set to do another one but instead I decided to just talk frank with ya about what I am up too. There are many hats that I wear each day. Today for example I had a meeting with someone who is going to help my businesses succeed at a different level. The other day I had a meeting with someone who helped me organize some business ideas. Now what I need to do is a complete overhaul with my websites, blogs, shop, social media platforms and organize them appropriately so they all don’t run into each other. The only social media platform that will basically stay the same with the type of posting that I do will be Instagram – but I am changing up the Bio. I have separate IG accounts for books, which I don’t use that much, Cheer, which I don’t use that much and now my coffee IG account. I have a few Facebook fan pages that need an overhaul – completely and my shop on one of the Facebook pages along with my shop on 1 of my websites will be getting a complete makeover.
I just finished doing a photo-shoot at a fast food chain that I am representing on IG and will also put stuff on Twitter. Oh yes, My twitter bio needs to be redone as well plus I have other sites that I use to make money from that need to be organized to do 1-2 things not 5-6 things. What I notice is that when you overload customers with thousands of options they don’t purchase from you. Therefore you need to separate things and have certain sites do certain things.
Also, you need to have a strategy with everything you present online.
My podcast and my radio show has changed over time. It started as just talking about social media platforms and how they work and ideas for businesses to create engaging content and it exploded with talking about trends in the digital landscape , things everyone is talking about on social media, and athletes usage of social media ( which has become a top topic)
So today, I am doing my radio show “The Sassy Show” On my Facebook page at 3pm EST time, then spending quality time with my nephew, niece and brother (hopefully my sister-in-law too!) Tomorrow I have my networking meeting at 7am. I am the educational coordinator of the group. After that I have to set up Facebook content for clients and we have my mom’s retirement luncheon. Then I will take the rest of the day to myself.
Saturday and Sunday I will spend time organizing platforms, websites, and such. But I also will take time for myself. It is the summer time and you need to enjoy yourself. Monday it’s back to the grind.
There ya go folks. A behind the scenes in writing- not video or pictures. ( I though will post videos and pics on social media this weekend BTW)
NFL Players Don’t Know Anything About Love
Over the past week and a half I have seen at least 5 athletes post the famous bible verse of “Love is patient” except they never post the entire verse, they end it with “It keeps no record of wrongs,” BUT that is not the entire verse, so here is it in it’s entirety which is 1 of my favorite verses:
If I speak in the tongues of men or of angels, but do not have love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. If I give all I possess to the poor and give over my body to hardship that I may boast, but do not have love, I gain nothing.
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away.
For we know in part and we prophesy in part, but when completeness comes, what is in part disappears. When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put the ways of childhood behind me. For now we see only a reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.
And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.
It’s ironic that NFL players and other athletes post up to the “wrong doing” but do they really understand UNDERSTAND what they are posting or are they just posting for likes?
Here is what all the athletes who post this verse miss the boat on:
In the now-famous “Love Chapter” of 1 Corinthians, Paul wrote about love that is put into practice. More than just a feeling or emotion, Paul writes less about what love is and more about what love does. Transformed by the love of Jesus Christ, this kind of love should be a natural overflow of the believer’s heart and evident in everything they do. Unfortunately, for the Corinthian church, this was not always the case. The words used in 1 Corinthians 13 to describe love are the kind of active verbs Paul was challenging the Corinthian church to adopt: patience, kindness, humility, forgiveness, trust, hope, and perseverance. Love, Paul argued, was the greatest outward testimony of their inward transformation.
At the beginning of 1 Corinthians 13, Paul writes, “If I speak in the tongues of men or of angels, but do not have love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal” (1 Corinthians 13:1). He then goes on to say that if Christians are able to prophesy, can understand the mysteries of the universe, and give to the poor but ultimately lack love, their actions are meaningless, and there is no spiritual gain. Love must be at the root of everything Christians do and evident in their actions.
It’s more about your ACTIONS than your WORDS. And in the world of social media, the NFL players (and other athletes) certainly just know how to talk the talk when they hardly walk the walk.
Exclusive BTS from a GirlBoss
Everyone always says to me, “It must be so nice to be your own boss.” My answer to that loaded statement is quite simple: No it isn’t. I mean, don’t get me wrong, I get to do what I love to do and do it on my own terms. But what people don’t see and don’t know is that it takes ALL of me to do it day in and day out. No two days look the same.
For my new series ( here on the blog and on Instagram and Twitter) I will show you pictures and videos of me being the “girlboss” that I am.
Now, I start out most days the SAME way with Prayer, working out and feeding my squirrels and birds. The only day that I have off from working out is Friday.
it’s also good for the soul and your mental state. I will show you my workouts on Instagram and Twitter FYI
Pasta salad- homemade.
Social Media Day Giveaway
Every June 30th, we celebrate Social Media Day. What exactly is it?
It is the day for celebrating all the great relationships you have built on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, and more. It is also to appreciate the invention and to highlight how social media has become the key tool for communication and connecting people sitting across the world in seconds with just a few clicks.
To celebrate I am holding a few #giveaways
- A Clubhouse Invite- I have 8 to give out.
- A Free Sneak Peek at my #instagram workshops
- A Free Sneak Peek at my LinkedIn workshops
- FREE COFFEE from my new coffee brand, “Just Brew It” Gourmet Coffee –
- A Chance to WIN A SIGNED Paperback of my book, “Relationship Impossible”
HERE IS HOW TO ENTER EACH GIVEAWAY
- Follow me on Twitter ( Sweetstephanie7) and RT the post I have pinned to my home page
- Follow me on Instagram ( Sassygirlpr7) and Like the post (Click Here)
- Follow me on LinkedIn and like my post pinned to the top of the page
- Follow my new account JustBrewItGourmetcoffee – and Like the #Reel posted and comment #Justbrewit
- Subscribe to my #youtubechannel, Like ANY Video and then comment in THIS BLOG post that you did that by telling me which video you liked.
WINNERS will be chosen later today!
Podcast part 2: Excerpts from Relationship Impossible
Listen to another exciting excerpt reading of my recently released book, “Relationship Impossible”.
UPDATE: The paperback is on the way to Amazon in 4-6 weeks and then in August the paperback will make it’s way to Barnes and Noble dot com.
Here’s the lowdown on dating sites: Every dating site has an algorithm that they use in matching people together. It is not “fate” that helps you meet the person, it is artificial intelligence. Match and the other apps use the same type of recommendation system used by Netflix or Facebook, taking your past behaviors (and the behavior of others) into account to predict what you’ll like next. LISTEN NOW!
Here’s the link for the PODCAST —-> CLICK Here
Breaking: Relationship Impossible
My book, ” Relationship Impossible,” the most anticipated book of the summer, was officially released on Amazon as an eBook June 5th.
You Can Purchase it HERE
In the meantime, you can listen to a podcast reading of the book here: CLICK
There will be a contest coming up soon and also a giveaway of the book AND my coffee brand that I am launching soon!
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Excerpt From “Relationship Impossible” – part 1
Abuse isn’t always obvious. Here are some red flags that everyone reading this should know and note:
- Call you names and put you down
- Call or text you throughout the day to check on you
- Keep you from friends or family
- Control your $
- Threaten to hurt you, himself/herself, your pet or loved one
- Hit, Kick, Push, Punch, Slap, Pinch, Choke or Bite you
- Destroy property or throw things
- Tell you who you can see or what job you can have
- Tell you how to dress Act overly jealous
- Withhold medication or health care
- Make you have sex or do sexual acts that you don’t want to do
- Threaten to “out” you if you are gay or lesbian
- Constantly criticize Embarrass you Blame you for everything – including the abusive behavior
- What usually happens after this happens the first time is that the victim makes statements like: “My partner isn’t violent all the time – they love me” “Things will get better – they didn’t mean it” “Maybe it’s my fault” “I’m scared of what will happen if I leave them” And the abuse continues.
- Remember, most relationships start off with each person acting their best and seeing the other with rose-colored glasses. It never starts off on an abusive note.-
I discuss this more in my new book, “Relationship Impossible” which can be preordered now on Amazon. Click here to order now!
More excerpts to come!
The Wait Is Over!
The wait is OVER! Pre-order #Ebook form only: “Relationship Impossible”
What people don’t realize about dating apps in general is that you need a lot of swipes to get a match, a lot of matches to get a number, a lot of numbers to get a date and a lot of dates to get a third date.
Dating sites are good at baiting people to try them out. They lie about how many active members they truly have, use fake profiles….. But, remember, just because it is popular, doesn’t mean it actually works!
In this book, we will divide in, head first, on the hook-up culture, dating apps, social media, and also discuss some serious topics such a dating violence, gaslighting, ghosting, stalking, and more.
We will also discuss professional athletes and their use of social media and dating apps.
*** Those who pre-order the book will have a chance to WIN FREE coffee from my coffee brand that I am launching ****
Let’s Get Sassy
If you missed The Sassy Show Or Sassy Nation, look no further than the links for both my radio show and podcast.
The radio show, The Sassy Show which is presented by Rockland World Radio is usually LIVE on my Facebook page every Thursday 3pm EST. Sassy Nation is a recorded podcast that is released every Friday by noon. I place the links on my Twitter page, Instagram bio, and also my LinkedIn page.
You are missing out on all the latest news, projects, and new products I am working on such as my coffee line! – Follow My Facebook pages: Sassy Brand and Sassy Productions
Right now, on Twitter, I am doing a poll to name the coffee brand…. Be a part of it and there will be a chance for FREE Coffee later on.
I also have 2 new designs in my store which are below.
Also today, on Amazon is the official release of the first journal that goes with my upcoming book, “Relationship Impossible”
Stay tuned for some more exciting news coming soon!
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