It seems that the guys who play in the NFL, once again proof just how dumb you guys can be when it comes to picking women. But before I go ahead and rant on that, let me let every single guy, including every single athlete know something: Cameras are everywhere! If you are going to make a decision that in the end, gets you into trouble either with the law, your job, your wife, your girlfriend, etc, just know that someone already has it on camera. Technology has developed cell phones with awesome cameras. It also has developed awesome surveillance systems in hotels, malls, bars, clubs, stores, and just about everywhere, where you can go and be seen.
Now onto talking about women. Stop letting your penis make your decisions when it comes to women. There’s such a thing as listening to your gut, or your intuition. That’s why these dating apps are destroying people, because when you meet people via dating apps, you go by what they are saying about themselves and, most people lie in their dating profiles. Secondly, just because a woman “looks” hot doesn’t mean she has good intentions and a beautiful soul. Stop judging women by their looks. It can be said to women who do the same thing when it comes to men, but women choose a man differently than a man, chooses a woman. Women are more prone to give a guy who isn’t “hot” a chance, because he has better features than just his looks. Whereas a man, goes straight for the hot chick just to impress his friends, or make people jealous, or because he thinks she will be his arm candy, and they will standout.
Thirdly, Keep your hands to yourself – pushing, kicking, slapping a woman is unacceptable. Now, women need to be called out on this as well, because it’s not right to go ahead and smack a man for ANY reason UNLESS he hit you first and it’s self-defense. In the movies you see women throwing shoes, purses, and even throwing water in a man’s face after she finds out he’s cheating or doing something that gets him into trouble. That’s also unacceptable.
No means no. Let me repeat that for all the men out there: No means No. If she doesn’t want to sleep with you, doesn’t want to hook up, doesn’t want to hook up with your friends, doesn’t want to do anything, no means no. How ever the rest goes down, even if she calls you the worst name in the book, you stay the bigger person and WALK AWAY! Don’t let your emotions get the best of you.
This is for all the athletes: STOP getting involved with women you meet at clubs or parties. NOTHING good can come from it. Also stop getting involved with groupies that hang out in the SAME hotel as you! Trust me when I say that women who do this, do this for a reason- they know that you got fame, money, power, whatever else, and that is the ONLY reason they are there! Again, she could be “hot” but don’t let your penis make that decision to have her go up to your hotel room. Next thing you know, you fall asleep and she posted pictures of you together all over social media! Also, if she gets pregnant, you are now going to be paying her child support for the next 18 years!
THINK before you act.
Go for a woman who doesn’t care what you do for a living and treats you like she would treat any guy she would meet. Go for a woman who supports your ups and your downs.
Sparks are great. But investigate. Be attracted to her mentally, emotionally not just physically. Go for a woman who can be excited about your success and goals in life is someone who won’t hold you back for one reason or another. If she wants to change you in any way, and they she is not accepting you for who you are, that is a sign of a controlling person and she will never treat you properly. Finally, pick a woman who can bring out the best in you and who can maintain her own identity. Those are the women who you should choose, and if you notice I never said anything about looks or sex.
Stop letting your penis make the decisions for you. Use your heart and your mind to help you pick the best partner for you- not just a one night stand or a “maybe” girlfriend. But a person who you see yourself with forever.